Being Late

Do you, or someone you know, have issues with being on time? There seems to be an energetic or spiritual component to this aspect of personality. According to author Phil Fox Rose, self-seeking is when you choose your own gain over the interests of others. Self-seeking behavior intends to maximize the productivity or convenience of your own time at the expense of other people’s schedules.            

Self-centeredness, on the other hand, means you are so focused on yourself and your concerns that you don’t even realize you’re harming others. Self-centered behavior does not notice people are bothered, or might not consider that your lateness has an impact on their serenity or productivity.

One of Rose’s blog readers pointed out that we all have grown up with over-stimulating crisis movies, which have imprinted the need for drama. This could lead to creating one crisis after another in the race against time to get things done! (tee tee) Does this explain an overall energy that most have been programmed with? Is chronic lateness part of some type of thrill that helps some people know they’re alive? Is it rude, and does being late do harm? Questions are building, which indicates a whisper is forthcoming on the subject of being late:


Being late can inform the individual that there are many layers to unfold, some going back to childhood. Not feeling seen as a child could create a hidden need for attention, or some form of resistance to time management. The subconscious may be driving the hidden perplexities of such a behavior pattern. On the surface, it could appear that the person being late has made a conscious choice to exhibit rude behavior, which may not be true.

A bad relationship with time can be karmic by nature. Once the pattern has manifested, it can be incredibly challenging to break away from. What lives in the hidden realms of human consciousness is like the vehicle you fail to see in your rear-view mirror while driving. Breaking the karmic pattern requires gleaning the lesson from the behavior, which can be delivered in the form of a harsh response from others. Once the lesson is accepted, sacred ceremony is recommended to make declarations of freedom from the need for more lessons with time.

Failure to keep your word, in any form, is the inability to express love for yourself and others. Unreliability erodes trust and serves to harm relationships, especially the relationship with yourself. The physical incarnation is the agreement to experience the continuum offered by time within the constraint of space and matter. These are the dimensions that offer the most practical aspects of knowledge for the souls. The vibrations that emerge from movement through these dimensions create resonant frequencies that hold the light and love that lead to awakening the soul with upward movement into the higher self.

The limitations experienced with time can feed an urgency with the life process that illuminates wisdom. Creating strategies that address the issues relating to time can build a structure of stability. A true awakening can come from healthy relationships that include keeping your word, earning the trust of others, and avoiding any behavior that fails to express love. Free yourself from limiting behaviors with regard to time as you journey on the path to finding peace.       


The Hike

At the fall Equinox of 1990, six courageous souls trekked through the Bandelier National Park to a place known as the Stone Lions Shrine. This was a sacred place close to the Yapashi Pueblo, with evidence of human existence dating back 11,000 years. We would hike a total of 13 miles that day, with more than 7,000 feet of elevation changes. I carried an 80-pound backpack with little awareness of what was ahead. The Mid-Alamo Canyon was 500 feet of switchbacks down one side and 500 feet back up the other side. We hiked the canyon twice that day!

We left before sunrise and finished the pilgrimage an hour after sunset by the light of the Harvest Moon reflecting off the cliffside dwellings on the final descent. Only crazy people would make that hike in one day (tee tee). Our guide was a longtime friend named John Myrick, who had made the hike several times but never in one day. The discussion of turning back came up more than once, as I recall. That one great adventure became some sort of eternal bond with the six souls of the group, and an amazing accomplishment that still holds a place in my heart.

We found out that John died suddenly under the Harvest Moon leading up the Fall Equinox, and all the memories came pouring back from that experience. I never looked at John the same way after that hike and was lucky to have seen him in the last two years. People grow apart geographically, but you always know that person with whom you share such a life-changing experience. What energy is forged upon the soul when you journey beyond the imagination?
Life is all about the journey, the people who walk with you, the lessons you take from each experience, and the residual energy of your triumphs. Your journeys can become an unintentional pilgrimage of the subconscious mind. Those who journey alongside, giving you the courage, the dedication, the commitment, and the inspiration, become partners in your spiritual growth. Those partnerships connect you both to an indelible imprint at the core of soul.

Six souls vibrating as a unit in movement toward a common goal creates synergy. Like a flock of birds or a school of fish, the group becomes one in spirit, one in consciousness. That oneness unites and ignites energy to vibrate at a higher spiritual level. Synchronization occurs within a resonant frequency, and an eternal bond is formed in the etheric body memory and re-corded in the Akasha. Overcoming obstacles to arrive at a place held sacred for thousands of years is stepping into a Universal energy field that is a fabric without time and space.

The union of souls becomes an influence by entering the magnetic domain created by naturally occurring geopathic energy. The movement of tectonic plates beneath the Stone Lions Shrine is the force that drew the Native American people to sense that this was a magical place created by the Great Spirit. Such a journey transcends the human spirit with life illuminated.

Whenever you move beyond your comfort zone and enter a realm that doesn’t seem possible, you expand human consciousness. The meaning of your existence is to discover who you are, your ability to persevere, and to stand in the light of your true self. Those moments of awareness create the eternal bond that forges the awakening soul. Now that’s love!   



Beckie and I had a recent experience that brought up this word and the need for a whisper. We trusted someone near and dear to our hearts, and they completely betrayed that trust. I have always believed that just because a person breaches your trust, that does not necessarily mean they are untrustworthy (tee tee). It simply means that they will need to demonstrate actions that lead to earning trust once again. But in this case, Beckie offered redemption in exchange for truth. This did not mean instant trust, though, simply a dialogue around what happened.

In the Bible, redemption involves deliverance from bondage based on the payment of a price by a redeemer. Redemption is defined as the act of making something better or more acceptable. Redemption was, according to Friedrich Nietzsche (a German philosopher, cultural critic, poet, and Latin/Greek scholar), not a deliverance from sin, but a total affirmation of life, with all its pain, suffering, and absurdity

Is truth a form of redemption that rebuilds the bridge to trust? Is it naive to think that a person can change when they refuse to take responsibility? Is offering redemption an affirmation of love and life-giving? Do we decide redemption, or would that be judging others? The questions are piling up, which means time for a whisper on redemption:


True redemption comes from the realm of divine providence and cannot be awarded by humans. Trust is an emotion and a core value that can be felt, but not necessarily a truth. People can be too trusting by nature, leading to spiritual bypassing. Trust can be extended, but in the final analysis is determined by judgment, feelings, and the senses of every individual.

Redemption is a price paid by the redeemer and salvaged by the human soul, often through suffering for the actions committed that are void of love. You cannot fake redemption, for it comes from the heart and is measured by faith. Actions based in truth are the measure of redemption, so an action that offers redemption cannot be faked or contrived.

Any payment for past transgression against divine Universal laws must come from an act of love, an act of service, an act of gratitude, an act of truth, an act of kindness, or an expression of extreme vulnerability. Love has redemptive qualities that hold the power to transform the past into the present reality. Love is the seed of redemption that offers transcendence when nurtured into spiritual growth.

A true apology is a shared experience that acknowledges the pain of a life experience. Within a moment that holds the vibration of sorrow, one can experience the consequences of their actions. In this way, two people can amend the pain felt by a shared experience so that redemption fills the vacuum created by the separation felt in a moment of betrayal. The soul can mend all wounds to restore trust whenever love is offered to become the bonding energy connecting every person to each other and to divinity.

Redemption follows the energy of love wherever it goes and whomever it touches.

Virtual Healing

Part of the beauty of my work is being a witness to a Universal intelligence. Tapping into the fount of intuitive wisdom and channeling information in a moment of silent reception sometimes offers something that seems completely unrelated to the work with a client (tee hee). You never know when a download from spirit will occur, which always adds to the mystery.

It was in the middle of a crystal bed experience that a vision opened up. I felt like some portal appeared with a possible glimpse into the future. Looking through a timeless window allowed me to access a vision that was amazing! I saw a person lying on a table with some type of virtual viewing device on their eyes. Another person seated next to them was operating a computer. The patient was watching a program with visuals related to their specific disharmony.

The feeling that went with the experience was uplifting to the soul. To think that we could use technology in a way that enhanced a person’s natural ability to heal seemed logical and easily doable. Let’s get a whisper on the future of virtual reality as a tool for healing:

What you witnessed was one of many possibilities. The future is accessible to those willing to suspend all limiting thoughts and beliefs long enough to access the information. Your world is evolving rapidly as technological advances. Every single invention will begin with a thought or a vision, so it is up to humans to act on those inspired moments.            

What you refer to as virtual healing is similar to the effect of a placebo. Faith healing requires faith, so the future of maintaining a balance with regard to wellness of the body, mind, and spirit will also be anchored in faith. The refusal to believe in the natural ability to heal is a form of resistance supported by individual free will. Those who are hungry for power have used human belief systems to gain some type of market control, leading to great suffering.           

The creation of separation through an ego-structured system has led to a society of people who depend on individualism for survival. Each person must be in charge of themselves in order to thrive and survive. Communities have been created, but tribes have been lost, and working in harmony as a group is under the control of countries, religion, and corporations that are dependent on each individual paying into a system that is less than cohesive.           

Technology can bring people together or bring destruction, but for those working in the positive, virtual healing devices can be invented and used to boost the faith of many. Being able to visualize the problem and see desired results can serve to complement traditional healing practices and create a distance from practices of the past. Those who seek to gain from the suffering of others will naturally resist, so it will be up to each of you to stand united in face of adversity. Loving your fellow human can lead to healing a species and a planet. 

The Forgiveness Bypass

          Thanks to Gib for sending me the article by Jeff Brown in the Elephant Journal, 10 Ways to Bypass the Real. Jeff writes about the many ways that the New Age movement has brought the greater need to understand the branches of the spiritual bypass tree. The modern spiritual movement has created a large, unbalanced focus on peace, love, and light, which can easily lead to patterns of self-avoidance on the path to enlightenment.    
            According to Jeff Brown, the ‘Forgiveness Bypass’ is “The tendency to avoid unresolved emotions and relational experiences by feigning forgiveness, or premature forgiveness. What often manifests is a tendency to shame those who haven’t forgiven, as though forgiving a wrongdoer is more important than healing itself. Real forgiveness requires a genuine working through of the emotions and memories related to our experiences. And, at the end of that process, it is the victim’s choice as to whether they choose to forgive.”
             Forgiveness is a process, and one that I spent a year and a half engaged with prior to transitioning into my present work. It was a long and grueling process of internal cleansing that occurred with times of integration in between facing my darkness. I think Jeff’s point is that we have to be present and authentic with our spiritual selves. Let’s get a whisper from an angel:

            Sensitive people who are working with their spirituality often have a large life purpose. The larger the life purpose, the bigger the ego. The ego of a spiritually focused sensitive person will often manifest internally as a conversation within. The ego will judge itself against a hidden comparison, which is perfection. This leads to projections of the shadow self, self-defeating habits, and moral and spiritual judgments that can be misleading.

            Higher levels of consciousness, when left ungrounded, can support incorrect thinking based on a hopeful view of the world, distanced from reality. Spiritual bypass of the truth begins with justifiable actions based on the standard of spiritual perfection. Spirituality without clear practices and a grounded focus can lead to suppression of major emotions. Anger, when suppressed in the name of love, becomes a negative imbalance of energy that emerges as anxiety. The emotion of disgust can become sadness as it breaks the barriers of hope, therefore diminishing trust. Contempt can become sadness for humanity and a loss of faith.

            The senses of a spiritual person can become imbalanced as a result of suppressing true feelings and justifying themselves to suffer by suppressing anything perceived as negative. This can lead to an overall feeling of not wanting to be here anymore, as a spirit loses touch with reality. This feeling is common in spiritual beings, as the thought of being in the arms of the divine brings the most comfort. If this is occurring, it is a sign that some part of the individual must cease to exist in order to shift awareness with regard to the current reality.

            Express your true emotions so they do not become trapped within. Feel the freedom to see your true self becoming released from false teachings of how you should act. Be authentic with yourself to avoid the traps offered by spiritual illusions. Take action toward being your best self. Grounded presence with reality is the highest form of holding love and light.             

Sensitive People and Anxiety

I have noticed certain patterns with my practice, and one of those is the relationship between intuitive, or sensitive, people and anxiety. Many sensitive adults and children experience severe anxiety and depression. After noticing this pattern, I began to have deep thoughts about the question that hardly ever has a satisfactory answer: “Why?” (tee tee)

The ‘why’ might be explained further by Heather Stone, a clinical psychologist who writes: “Individuals suffering from anxiety are often highly sensitive people whose acute awareness has become an affliction rather than a gift. In an effort to mask their psychological pain, anxious individuals often seem extremely well composed, attractive, competent, intelligent, or articulate. Not only are they uncomfortable in their own skin, anxious individuals are acutely aware of all the ways in which there is an imperfect fit between themselves and their immediate world.”

Anxiety also represents root chakra imbalance. Many of my clients suffer from adrenal issues, which have an anatomical connection to the root. The message from the root chakra and adrenal gland is love your life purpose and ground your energy. Let’s ground into an angelic message around the relationship between anxiety and the sensitive beings on the planet:

The increasing numbers of sensitive people coming to inhabit the earth are part of the spiritual army that is here to elevate the consciousness of the human species. The only way this will occur is to change the DNA of enough individuals to increase the awareness and consciousness of an entire species through entrainment.

Humans who are more sensitive to others can feel more, touch more, know more, and sense more than the average individual. This means they are more adversely affected by chemicals in food and pesticides, electronic devices and EMFs (electromagnetic fields), vibrations from negative people and the environment, and by the fear of change. They are here to learn discernment, causal realities, and to develop routines that address their sensitive nature through grounding into the Earth energies. The following would be the divine prescription for a sensitive human of any age:    
~ Get more exercise. Walking thirty minutes a day at least five days a week will ground and greatly reduce your anxiety and any perceived loss of spirit.

~ Do routine activities, such as cleaning your room, going out into nature, connecting with trees, touching the ground, and meditating in nature. This way your connection to the spirit realm will be more pure and increase the light of the earth energies in the system.

~ Engage in subject mapping whenever you are learning, for understanding your life purpose, anytime you are establishing goals, and for greater discernment in all aspects of life. This will increase your divergent thinking and create the flow of energy like an artist imaging life.

~ Remove electronics from your body for extended periods, especially sleep. You are sensitive to the EMFs created by these devices, and your body’s electrical system can become negatively impacted in a way that causes unneeded stress and anxiety.

~ Create a limited, regular time for meditation and do not engage at night when your body needs the rest. Limit the length of meditation time and refuse to spend long periods of time connecting to the spirit realm. You are always connected to this realm naturally and do not need to over-indulge to create a connection. This type of discernment will bring balance, insight, knowledge, spiritual downloads, and grounding to your sensitive systems.

Anxiety reduces your aura and allows more dominating negative vibrations into your field. Your awareness will expand your gift to the world while bringing comfort to the soul.


This word keeps coming up in angelic communication and energetic transfers, especially with regard to ego. Separation means division or cessation as an act that creates some form of separation. All forms of separation are the product of ego, and we are seeing separation and division in our world like never before.
Besides the karmic energy created by separation, a single action of division has led to war throughout the history of the world. Our lives have been forced into separation in many ways, from the breakdown of the family structure, to the destruction of indigenous tribes, and to the horrendous violence that separates people with opposing views. We are witnessing increasing separation in our world, in a time when some of us believed we would be coming together.
Perhaps a giant global contrast is being offered as a way to raise consciousness and to avert the global extinction experts say is becoming inevitable. As Lightworkers, our job is to hold a space for peace and enlightenment of the human species. So let’s ask for a whisper on the subject of separation, to better know our place in the world:
Any action that creates separation takes careful discernment. Ego energy comes from the heart, which does not analyze or strategize. The heart simply feels and responds. When the heart feels hurt or pain, that can solicit an ego response. Emotional survival energy can take on many different forms, but an issue of karma can be supported energetically if the emotional response leads to some form of separation that is not agreed to by all parties. In agreements to claim personal empowerment and independence, there is no separation.

            All current negative karmic energy that engulfs the earth is a result of some form of separation extending back to the beginning of time. Love is the energy that bonds all human matter. Hate is the negative primary unit of life. Through hatred, separation spreads like seeds blowing in the wind, looking for a place to land. This karmic energy grows in any environment that supports separation. How many people, organizations, and groups are currently spreading seeds of hate?

            Taking time to carefully review your life to determine if any of your actions created division can yield life-changing positive benefits. Are you a member of a group that discriminates in any form? Did an ego voice, from you or others, create separation within your family? Has some traumatic experienced closed your heart in a way that transferred energy to form separation within yourself or from your core essence?

            This is not guidance instructing anyone to place themselves in an abusive situation. Boundaries of wellness are always recommended. Speaking from the voice of love and using the language of love creates agreement and a bond that is never broken. Your job is to listen to the voice within, determine if it is ego-driven, and refuse to act from any position created out of ego.

            Separation creates suffering, division creates hatred, cessation creates the illusion that humans are not connected to the energy of divinity. Separation from Source creates the ultimate separation of the human species.